My boyfriend got mad at me because i forgot how to play Black Ops 2 Online?

Question

I'm not those crazy hardcore multi-player gamers with black ops. I love old pc&consoles games. But i bought black ops because my boyfriend wanted to play online with me. So i did&we played zombies together all the time. Today he ask me to play online with him with other people. I was nervous mostly because i know how mean those people online can be mean& i haven't played that game since December. Obviously i forgot how to play since I am too busy with other stuff. It wasn't fun at all. I got kicked out of the game since i accidentally killed players on my team. He got so pissed off at me. We played another round online and i didn't kill players on my team. But i got the most deaths. At least i killed some people so I wasn't that useless. But he started cursing and since the phone was all jacked up, I couldn't hear him. He got even more mad and over the text he told me to play online more often. He knows I don't have time for that. I turned off the game and he text me that it bugged him that i didn't know how to play and that he got frustrated with the phone. I told him this wasn't the type of games i liked (I like the story of black ops,not online mode) &he got all pissed and told me "Well I guess you just wasted your money on those games" I told him he shouldn't be criticizing me like that. He said whatever&I just stop texting. I feel bad&I want to cry. How do I get better in this game. Cause I suck really bad&i don't want to be yelled at next time if we ever play

Answer 1

For one thing, your boyfriend should not force you to play at all under the circumstances that he harassed you. Second, he should not get mad at you since you are actually willing to play with him. Him criticizing you and all that just makes him a total douche bag. Gamer's tend to harass/criticize other players because they want to have that "Godlike score", he probably doesn't like loosing like any other player. That's why he even spoke/texted those things to you. If it isn't fun, tell him that. Do what you want! tell him you don't enjoy those games. Or, just give it a break. If all else fails, break up with him, he clearly doesn't care about what you think.

Answer 2

Well you sound like a sweet girl who shouldn't have to deal with his anger issues. If he is getting so mad that you can't play a video game that is meant to be enjoyed then he isn't mature enough to play rated M video games and have a girlfriend like you. If he gets really mad at you for that then you need to look at him and say "listen, you need to calm down because this is just a video game". Now on the fact of your skills you can always play a local match with bots where you have all weapons unlocked (to give you variety when your ready to play online), varying skills for the bots (from full blown stupid to MLG pros), and the amount of teammates to enemies (to choose how many people you want to fight at once). I really hope this helps and I hope you work out this problem with your boyfriend because this is really an issue. He should not have this bad of anger issues.

Answer 3

Don't be bothered with it. I don't even care how good i do as long as I have fun and if I don't, I go straight to zombies.



Usually I'll get a .22 kill/death ratio per game for the first 30 mins. or so then if I keep playing ill do .50 but I have fun. If you are not having fun then tell your boyfriend.

Answer 4

I also play with my boyfriend on Black Ops2 and i have my own xbox we would always play and he would get mad cuz i wasnt that good. So on my spare time I would play by myself and try to get better i was like this for 3 months playing bymyself. So one day he asked me to play with him and his friends and i got more kills then him he was pissed so we just started playing on the zombies maps and its something we both have fun doing maybe you guys should try or you should talk to him about how he hurt your feelings

Answer 5

This guy seems like a real dick if he got that mad at you for being bad at a video game, the only way to get better is play more but that seems to not be the actual issue, the issue is that him getting that mad at you, his girlfriend.

Answer 6

Your boyfriend sounds kinda like a jerk.

Dump. him.

Answer 7

This is something you need to tell him